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Are you ready to date? Getting yourself back on the dating scene can be hard sometimes

If you have met a potential partner through online dating, meeting him for the first time may be a little bit scary. However, the chances are, he will be every bit as nervous as you are. Try to see the first date as merely the next logical step from emails, messages and telephone conversations etc. You would not be meeting this guy in the first place if you did not feel some connection, so relax and have fun.

One of the things you will be most concerned about on a first date will be your safety. There are lots of ways to minimise any risk, which you can read in dating safety. The chances are that the guy you are meeting is genuine and once all reasonable precautions have been taken, try not to be too worried. However, if at any time during your date, you become concerned, make your excuses and leave. Trust your instincts.

"No one feels good turning up in 4” heels
and a new dress and finding they need to
hike 5 miles across the countryside..."

The next big problem for most women is what to wear. Obviously, it is vital to take into account where you are going. Make sure, if your date has made the arrangements, they give you a full account of what is planned. No one feels good turning up in 4” heels and a new dress and finding they need to hike 5 miles across the countryside to get to the “gorgeous, exclusive little Michelin starred restaurant” that they are expecting

The most important thing is to feel appropriately dressed in something that is both flattering and comfortable.  However, beautiful they may be, if those amazing shoes are half a size too small, and you are forever re-adjusting your top, you are not going to feel relaxed and gorgeous and will not have a wonderful time however great your date!

Once you have decided what to wear tell yourself you look beautiful! Confidence is a dead-cert for attracting attention as is a winning smile. Recent research has identified that men will always choose the biggest smile rather than the smallest dress size when rating attractiveness. Bear this in mind and practice your most dazzling smile and charming manners before you arrive!

Having done all the initial preparation, you then need to spot your date! When you have only seen photos, it can be difficult to immediately identify someone. Although they should at least be recognisable from their photo. It’s a good idea for you both to give some idea of how to spot each other. Your bright pink hand bag and his stripy shirt should be enough to confirm you are looking at the right person.

If you are meeting in a bar, restaurant or anywhere else where you may feel uncomfortable waiting alone, arrange with your date for him to arrive a few minutes early so that you do not feel awkward. Make sure you have each others mobile phone numbers or the number where you are meeting so you can at least let each other know if you are held up.

"...reread his profile and emails so you
have some of his interests, likes and
dislikes fresh in your mind..."

Hopefully, having got the initial logistics over with, conversation will flow and you’ll have a wonderful evening. To help things along a little, reread his profile and emails so you have some of his interests, likes and dislikes fresh in your mind. Sometimes a stilted conversation doesn’t mean you are not going to get on, it might just be that nerves have got the better of both of you. Asking about that film he mentioned recently or if the dog has recovered might be all you need to get things going again.

At the end of your date always say thank you - it's only polite after all. Let him know whether or not you’d like to see him again. If you really enjoyed the date and would like to repeat the experience, don’t be afraid to say so. It doesn’t always have to be the guy who makes the first move! However, don’t feel obliged to go on another date just to avoid hurting his feelings. If you really aren’t interested it will just be a waste of your and his time. Be polite but clear and he will accept your answer..

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